Posted by Putnik-ost, reply .

The husband comes late; there is no need, no need to ask his wife where he was, why he came late. He has his own space, he is free individuality. Two free personality live together, and no one invades the space of another. If the wife comes late, it is not necessary to ask: "Where have you been?" Who are you? It has its own space, kela its own freedom. But it happens every day, in every home. Because of the small things people fight, but deep, in fact, they are not willing to allow each other to have their own space. People have different tastes. Your husband kela might have something kela like it, but you do not. This does not mean that it should be the beginning of an argument, because you are a husband and wife, and you have to love the same things. And all these questions ... and every man returns home and is always thinking, "What did she ask, and what I answer?" A woman knows what she asks, and he answers, and he knows that all of these answers false, false. He is deceiving her. What kind of love, which is always suspicious, always afraid of jealousy? If the wife sees you with some other woman - you're just laughing, talking - it's enough to ruin your whole evening. You will be sorry for this: it is a very high price for a small laugh. If the husband sees his wife with another man, and she seems to be joyful, happy, this is enough to create chaos. People do not realize that they do not know what love is. Love never suspects love never jealous. Love never interferes kela with the freedom of another. Love never enforces anything else. Love gives freedom, and freedom is possible only if your being together there are gaps. Osho
Well, straight one to one problem Vereshchagin painted. If his wife drove him for the gun, he would go with Sukhovym and Petka, rasfigachili they gang Abdullah with a machine gun, as red commissars Ukrainian village - and remained alive to all of us to joy. So, a good man his woman does not have to listen to: would listen - only worse and it will make itself. Conclusion: love your wife, do you want it good, then do not listen kela to her.
Apparently, kela true love - it's unrequited love. And even then only one way real. In general, it seems to me that when the author says, "People do not realize that they do not know what love is.", He is referring to that "love", which in the books or in his imagination. People do not "do not know", they just called this word several different phenomenon. In general, the "love" - it's too complex and ambiguous concept that it can be so easily described. There is nothing surprising in the fact that many people understand the word differently. The more that people love, too, can each in their own way. In addition, it remains an open question - and whether it was once the love that in the books? Or maybe it's all the fruit of the collective dreams and fantasies? Whether to blame the people for the deficiencies of their relationship, if the people kela themselves are imperfect by nature?
Of dialogue on the forum of my city: - there is someone who is familiar with the books of Castaneda and Osho? - And that someone kela is bad? We met turned obchitalsya husband, and her bad, a month she left him.
Posted by Putnik-ost, reply .
gamer: Firstly - the one who does not want to make me feel good. - Is envious, and not selfish. Second - You're just mindlessly retold somewhere to hear (read) stupidity. Learn to think for themselves and to independently formulate their thoughts. In life, this ability is often useful. Third - selfish shit you well or badly. Egoist only important that it was good, and all others can at least rest.
HUKUTOC: rejection may indicate repressed desire acceptance and affection. On the opposite sign it breaks out. Sometimes it happens when a kid little man sought with an open mind to others, and they are there "spit" or closed from it. Protective reflex psyche - closed back and enter it into the program kela pattern of action as a reflex. As in your case, I do not know.
Posted by Petrovitch, reply .
every man returns home and is always thinking, "What did she ask, and what I answer?" A woman knows what she asks, and he answers, and he knows that all of these answers false, false. He is deceiving her. - This is a false statement. I'm coming home I do not think anything like this. Even if I come back late at night. kela Moreover, my personal space is completely transparent, because we - one. The wife there are certain personal niche that it does not discuss, but for women - this is normal, it is their reflex female. Very often, skillfully manipulating the audience, Osho lying. Or arrogant and intrusive talks about the phenomena and objects kela it is not clear. I think the goal of all of its activities was simple - pochёsyvat and iron excessively inflated sense of self-worth. Perhaps it was nice to feel an ascetic, who in his mouth drop millions and Well